Here are 6 ingredients for healthy relationships that we must strive to develop in every relationship, especially those close to us, our close friends, buddies, colleagues and even business relationships.
1. Acceptance, Empathy and Respect for the Other Person. Essentially, it is love. Love is much deeper than a feeling. Love is a commitment we make to people to always treat that person correct and honorably. To understand and accept the other person as he is.
2. Fulfilling of demands. "You could have everything you want in life if you help sufficient other people get what they wish out of life." A healthy relationship helps meets demands. We serve and get in return without consciously and eagerly expecting, of course. It will come- mutually and naturally.
3.Open and honest communication. " Communication is to relationships what breath is to life" The key to communicating is to be an superb listener, have something good to say and express yourself well. Project warmth,, empathy and caring. By letting the other person know what we think and feel, it lets us connect with the other person. It enables us to make a connection. Both listening with no trouble and communicating what we feel is necessary.
4.Stickiness- Patience and Loyalty. We are humans and humans make mistakes after all. And it takes time to change. Often, those who give up on relationships too early or because the other person isn't perfect, often forget that their next friend, their next spouse or business partner, will not be perfect either! Those who have experienced main turmoil in their relationships and endured with patience have emerged stronger after the crisis.
5. A Common Purpose. Working together, building together, failing and succeeding together while pursuing a common intention - that is what relationships are made of. " To associate with other like minded people in small purposeful group is for the sizeable majority of men a women a source of profound psychological satisfaction" Aldous Huxley Find people with whom you have common purposes with. In your present relationships, find a common intention to look forward to. It will gel and create long lasting joy and benefits.
6. Fun. Fun brings enjoyment to the relationship. This is usually forgotten or neglected in our family and spouses. Especially when we take the relationship for granted. We have to remember to consciously create fun situations and moments that we will remember with amusement and gratitude for a long time. Like family fun time and particular moments together
Having and developing all these takes time. But it is the most rewarding activity one could have. You'll not regret and be ever so grateful you did at the finish.
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